No, I never responded to you before, but I want to support you on this. I think you are making a very "generous" offer to a man who, probably, left you, right? If I were you, I wouldn't be so generous, but that's just me.
I'm not familiar with your sitch at all, but being a LBW, I understand your hursts and fears, and I fully believe LBS should take the full proceeds of what the law has to offer.
I am personally going through my own D right now, and mediation comes up on April 15th, tax day. What an irony! Anyway, I presume you have an attorney. What does he/she say about all this?
from poet, who is "rolling down a no-come-back track."
