I was an emotional wreck, devastated by what was going on... but I did not let that show to H. I counted on the support here to help me through that.
The point is to do things differently than what you were doing... it obviously wasn't working.
These things are counter-intuitive, but your best chance of turning things around. If you are like most of us here, you will find a strength within yourself you didn't even know you had.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
