OK, somewhat stressful day today. First of all, I mentioned to my friends at work this am that when X gave me the child support/alimony check this weekend, he deducted $122.50 for 50% of medical expenses. And remember, I paid about $4000 or so for the kids therapies, copays and medications last year. So my friends said that's illegal for him to modify the amount and you need to call your L. So I did, and also b/c I also wanted to stress the need for garnishment; I'm seriously not going to sign anything if needed if I don't have that done first, and his changing the amount or payment date every other month is crazy. So then the L said well email him and ask for details of what the medical costs were b/c he never directly has given me any info of course. So I did that, just a short and sweet email asking him for list of expenses. So of course, I got nasty email back from him which I ignored.
After work tonight, I left a little bit late b/c I was doing something, and then went to the store on the way home, to get groceries and the kids' Easter stuff. Really weird b/c I'm the least observant person and I never notice people at the store, unless they need help or something, but I'm in the produce section, and out of the corner of my eye I see something and look and it's X making like a big swish with his cart as he was walking towards the next aisle, I think he wanted me to notice him. I just kind of nervously smiled I'm pretty sure, and then just grabbed a bunch of produce dumped it in my cart and tried to rush to get out of there. A couple minutes later he comes back to me (he had been going in the opposite direction) and asks me really loud why did you email me that today you know what the medical expenses are or something like that. I just kind of shook my head, said nothing, and walked quickly off to the registers. I was worried he might follow me to the parking lot or something but he didn't. I was so shaky after that. He's really kind of crazy and it sinks in more as time goes by. So that was my day.
