He definitely seems to be in a bad spot. Which is honestly good. I like that you are not backing down on the D issue. Let him do the work. I also like that you are reclaiming your home.
It's like you are saying that his actions are not going to turn you live upside down anymore. You are standing up for yourself.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)