Well I can't help feeling I've blown it. W and OM always communicate by cell phone and now the only way I'd hear those calls is found out.
W has not said a word to me but I can feel it building. Email was clean and nothing in FB.
I had a sobering conversation with a lawyer today but at least I know my rights and what it will all cost me if it gets that far. I'm going to keep on I guess the way I have. It's tough to gather any other intel with taking care of D while W is out.
M 40 W 39 D 4 M 5 years Bomb dropped 08/09 In house separation