Well I can't help feeling I've blown it. W and OM always communicate by cell phone and now the only way I'd hear those calls is found out.

W has not said a word to me but I can feel it building. Email was clean and nothing in FB.

I had a sobering conversation with a lawyer today but at least I know my rights and what it will all cost me if it gets that far. I'm going to keep on I guess the way I have. It's tough to gather any other intel with taking care of D while W is out.


M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation