"Don't be readily available, don't answer your phone or messages right away if at all. Give her exactly what she thinks she wants, life WITHOUT YOU." ~ That was a quote from a different post in this forum.
hmmm, I wonder who would of come up with that type of advise?
And that is exactly what you need to do, even post D. You weren't good enough to be a husband, then you aren't good enough to be the cook, mechanic, electrician, plumber, back stratcher, massuse (s/p), whatever.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11