A great one to help change the WAS's negative opinion of you back into positive. Like Jedi Mindtricks:

"How to Change Anybody" Dr. David J. Lieberman

Also very insightful and straightforward:

"Ten Stupid Things Couples Do To Mess Up Their Relationships" Dr. Laura Schlessinger

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER