I did get some info from W's brother this weekend. From the start, she said that no one thought anything about her being at the bar with him back on Sept. Many of her family members were there. I didn't really believe her. Of course, she was lying. Her brother said he threatened to kick the guys ass that day. She told him they were just friends, he said B.S. Another time, he and other brother told her she was crazy to want to seperate, and she needed to grow up and work things out.
I know family will stick with family, but it's nice to know at least some of her family has called her out on her behavior. I'm sure she has left things out to make me look like the bad guy. Oh, well.
Still always working on detaching, and having patience. Baby steps. The Hooter's receipt is a big GAL. I guess it wasn't very obvious to her that it was just to make her jealous. I can't believe she took it, though! It really is pretty funny. After all she's done right in front of my face. It's my fault for putting up with all of it from the start. No more. I'm not the person that I need to be yet, but am getting better and learning more every day.
I continue to draw strength from God, my kids and my family. All of you here are a big source of strength too. Thanks to everyone! I still need strength and will need to be pulled up out of the pits from time to time. I can do this!