No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

Okay, so more positives. Over the weekend, my W was over at her friend's house arranging a family yard sale so we didn't see her at all on Saturday or Sunday.

We talked on the phone at night and I basically talked to her and was very attentive. She continues to share alot more which is great. I told her about how I took the girls to a carnival on Sunday and painted a very vivid picture for her complete with colors, sounds and smells, so she could imagine what we did.

She sounded a little sad that she missed it.

Funny thing is that on Friday we took the kids to see the new "Dragon" movie (which is great BTW) and we ran in to one of her friends from work. She introduced me to her as her husband which was the first time I've heard her say that word in two years.

So this morning we had a Parent Teacher meeting with my D's teacher. We were waiting outside for awhile and we had a nice chat. I asked more about her weekend and I even picked up a tea for her at Starbucks.

We actually sat pretty close with each other and I put my arm around her shoulders which she didn't flinch from. So I think she's gotten used to the getting closer part.

The therapist I'm seeing now told me how she had a WAH and that while he wanted to come home, he just didn't know how because of all the shame and pain he caused. Sometimes I wonder if my W is like that.