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That was inspirational and the running is a great metaphor for this process. At first your old bones and muscles are tight and they hurt. But you push through the pain...


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Almost forgot.

A song

Fink This is the thing

I don't know if you notice anything different
It's getting dark and it's getting cold and the nights are getting long
And I don't know if you even notice at all
That I'm long gone

And the things that keep us apart
Keep me alive
And the things that keep me alive
Keep me alone
This is the thing

I don't know if you notice anything missing
Like the leaves on the trees or my clothes on the floor
And I don't know if you even notice at all
'Cause I was real quiet when I closed the door

And the things that keep us apart
Keep me alive
And the things that keep me alive
Keep me alone
This is the thing

And I don't know if you notice anything different
I don't know if you even notice at all

This is the thing







Put your future in good hands - your own. ~Author Unknown


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Chatter that is a good place to be. I reached that place on the beach.

Hold onto this post. Print it out and keep it in your wallet. There are going to be times when the lies will rise to challenge your truth. When those times come all you need to do is remember to pull out that list to remind yourself.

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So now I ask you to speak the truth to me. To offer your thoughts and support. For they are interchangeable. And the wind will carry the words to those who need the strength today.


The truth survives skepticism.

I create my own reality based on my belief system. Changing my beliefs, changes my life. Every time. We all manifest our world according to our beliefs. Believe the lies and life will follow.....





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Chatter- thanks so much for writing that- I am not a religious man but that is God speaking to us all through you. You are gifted and belled in so many ways.

i too succombed to tears of resounding strength and honor...it's amazing that so many of us are tempered together through these experiences...you are all God sends- I could not imagine where I would be w/o the people from this board.

Thank you, thank you, thank you


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Beautiful, simply, beautiful. You have offered support to many today, I am sure.

I am glad you are living your truth. That is The Victory. my friend.

You asked us to speak the truth to you. Well, mine is as follows:

God favors me
I will not be held down, kept down, pulled down
I will not be a shadow of myself
I will not cower and be mute in the corner
I will not lose my smile, my laughter, my joy
My joy is NOT yours to take
It is not for sale or hijacking
I will not back down from my truths
I will keep rising, smiling, laughing, loving, living.

Oh, please don't get me started here, Chatter.


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kara that is so beautiful.

Thank you.

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Chatter, you pr1ck, you made me cry AGAIN.

We are on the same path you and I, and at the same place, you just have such a way of bringing where we are into perspective and making me feel sooo lucky to know you and everyone else here.

Thank You.


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I wanted to thank everyone for their strength yesterday.

Thank you my friends.


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Chatterbug, stop making me cry.

I will try to put myself into your head on my next long run. I will try to remember to think of the positives.

Lucky the wonderful woman who catches this wonderful chatterbug!

Not many men (or women!) can express themselves so openly and poetically.

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