If she's smitten with her cross-country bed buddy, she could well act first, try for a temporary custody order on your son, and move the both of them way out there.
And if you don't call bs on her menopause comment, shame on you.
You've allowed your guilt for the things YOU did wrong to screw up your head and make you think that whatever your wife wants, she should get. Now hopefully you see how very wrong that is.
I'm serious Mike, if you want to protect yourself from a woman who is high on her new endorphin rush, you better start moving yourself off of top dead center. Tell her it's time for her to leave. But first I'd consult with your lawyer and find out how to protect yourself.
Sorry we were right.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."