Moving here, just confirmed, several avenues -help

[JacT]

www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com

Passenger my heart is breaking for you.I dont see your ages posted.Is it poss your H is going through a MLC?

I know there will be views on whether it exists but(I was cynical until my hubby changed beyond all recognition)my hubby was angry, distant, couldnt care less about R, even R with kids suffered.
I see some real signs with your H behaviour especially the affairs may suggest he has some unresolved issues he has to deal with.

Timing is key do not make any decisions until you are thinking more clearly.Remember you have the power, your are the W, have the kids, home,history.
Try and forget about the OW.She will only relish in your pain and misery which will give her power.

I have put a website at the top of the page which is run by rollercoaster rider and gives lots of info on mlc,A's and OW, and some advice on how you might approach sitch...meantime rest,try to sleep and eat and surround yourself with family, friends and forum members.
We are all here..