no, i wouldn't use the word "faults," good call. i want him to know that while his actions and decisions have hurt me, that i am not beyond repair and i'd like to at least know that we did everything we could to make our M work.
i don't think his single friends are making him feel like the grass is greener. i know he initially did the typical male thing which was to go out and drink your face off to avoid thinking about the situation you're in. last time i saw him about 2 weeks ago, he said he'd been cutting back on the drinking and going out because he knew it was not helping the work he was trying to do in becoming a better person. also, in conversations we've had in the recent past, he admitted that he was indulging in self-serving behaviors like being out with his friends and drinking so frequently, so at least he's aware of his actions.
i don't know if he would chose that lifestyle over being married, but he may chose it over the pain and hurt he's feeling right now...
how can i start with his confidence and hope?
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
