It's a tough call. MC could help, but you don't want to pressure him. If you're not ready to make a decision tomorrow, you can just listen and say you hear what he is feeling, and you appreciate him sharing it with you but you will need a few days to process it all and come to some decisions from your end. You don't have to agree with his opinions to hear how he feels and nod.
If he has shown no interest in not hanging out with the guys every day and not smoking weed every day, maybe he is really choosing that lifestyle over a married lifestyle. I know it sounds crazy, but it IS possible. Esp. if all his guy friends are single and making it look grass is greener.
