Since your W is already out of the house I don't see a point in confronting her about the A unless / until she says she wants to come back. But perhaps Rob has a different take on it.
Oh, just thought of a reason. If you want to go the route of exposing the A to help hasten its demise then you'll need proof.
And if you have a joint cell phone account you can access the records now before you split hers off.
I live in a no-fault state, so no help there.
I agree. She is out of the house, so what's the point. I would like to hasten it's demise, but I think, "why bother?" It will run its course. The best thing I can do now is concentrate on the "The Plan".
I can't access the cell phone records. She has it in her name. It is one of the only bills she pays.
I catch myself thinking she felt so unloved and and was so lonely, that she had to get away from our sitch without an affair and two things bring me back. Puppy stating in another thread, "I'm sure there are probably some examples. I've just personally never seen any." and one conversation we had where I asked if it was okay if I started seeing other people. After a very pregnant pause she said, "Well.. it would make me feel less guilty." 'nuff said.
I really was just curious about getting proof, but since my sitch isn't anywhere near reconciliation, it is just for planning for one possible outcome. She will have to initiate a reconciliation first before anything happens.
