Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Thanks dburt. So glad to hear things are great now with you and your W. Thank you for continuing to come here and help others. Wow, 6 months is very fast. You must have really DB'd your butt off. When you say that you saw results almost immediately, can you give me some examples? What things did your W do? Mine is getting friendlier towards me. I'm not sure if this is a result of the Dbing or not. I'm keeping my eyes open to any positive signs from my W. Were your immediate results significant or baby steps? If you don't mind me asking, what were some of the reasons your W told you as to why she wanted out of your M? Since your W wasn't involved with OM either, I would be interested to hear her reasons.

Since you did not separate, did you go on any "dates" at all with your W during the 6 months? I've read where people have dated their spouse as a way to reconnect. I would love to ask my W on a "date" to a concert with one of our favorite bands in a few weeks but I know we're not anywhere near that point yet. We always enjoyed going to concerts together years ago. I'm not sure why we stopped doing some fun things together. I should have kept the fun and spur of the moment things going. I would love to be spontaneous and surprise my W with fun things again like I used to. What's the worse thing she could say? No? I know, I know, not a good idea. I'm only kidding. I won't ask her but it's tempting...

Thanks again for continuing to check in on my sitch.