Your posts caught my attention and I had to chime in. If I, as a guy, can go 2.5 years without it you ladies can too
Also when you say you'll be better off jumping some stranger at a bar, I know you don't really mean it. I think it's so much easier for women to find someone than the guys. As a guy you really have to have your act together and even then your chances are slim, especially if you're a nice guy. Usually the womanizer types get the girls...ok so I've been watching too many clint eastwood movies lol but it is true. Those of us shy ones are usually oblivious to the girls.
As a suggestion, for the busy single parents, I think online dating is the way to go - the subscription/paid ones.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again