You said on my thread that exposure backfired on you. Tell us how you did it. It's tough with NC because he was forced out.
Does he have any knowledge at all that you are willing to work on the M still? He may be doing this out of desperation, thinking that there is no chance for him and you. Personally I would tell him that you are not going to sign any divorce papers - and it's hard, but can you have some contact? Remind him of what he lost at least.
Anyone else want to comment? In my mind, being around is so imperative so they can watch you GAL, do 180s, etc. That way they can see what they're missing. I bought the Penny Tupy book and I know it's against what she recommends, but in this case, I'm thinking she has to have some contact. If he's that depressed, it sounds like he just feels hopeless.
