Well, you guys are S. So, in that respect she's not doing anything "wrong" (towards you I mean, although being still M doesn't make it right either). You guys haven't exactly talked about what these visits mean, if it's exclusive, etc. as near as I can tell. (I'm just saying blowing up at her about it will do no good because she can easily justify it (hell, the WAS can always justify it, but hers actually almost fly) by saying she thought you guys were casual cuz you are S).

But if it's not okay with you (and really, WTF would it ever be okay LOL) then it's time to set a boundary. "W, I am not comfortable seeing you if you are seeing other people. I don't think we should see each other for a while" Then go dark or semi-dark.

If you don't want to talk about it right now, then don't. Just go dark and give yourself time to think.

So sorry about all this.

It'll be okay though. Everything always works out, one way or another.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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