I just spoke to the children after school, as we always do. DSD is upset with her Dad because she knew that I was leaving for the weekend, but her Dad was missing from Sat afternoon until Sunday around 2PM. No calls, he won't tell her where he was other than to tell her some lame excuse that he fell and hit his ear and it was swollen and bloody. She wants to know where he was.
Should I email DH about this? Usually Mondays are the nights he goes to the empty apartment and stays with OW all night. However, tonight I have to work late and DSS has an extracurricular activity that he will have to drive him to and from, from 6-9. He'll probably go there afterwards. I guess if I'm being honest, I'm trying to find a way to keep him home tonight. I was thinking of emailing him that DSD is upset he was gone and wants to know where he was. And then just saying "they need you now, I trust you to do the right thing." Sounds controlling, and it is, but I wonder if letting him know his actions are having consequences if it will change him a bit.
