I agree. Get a new C. They're not god. Many of them are quacks. Sounds like you got a duck.

For what it's worth, if your H leaves you for EA OW, he will be destined to a life of REAL constant snooping over there. She will be paranoid because she got him through cheating while he was married. "Lose em how you get em" will infect her mind and all that. He is creating his own future from his bad choices over and over.