Thanks Kat.

Thing is, I haven't been on FB for....ev...er, except when I saw she's been on it and I got curious.

We've even had discussions about how FB is a recipe for disaster with "old flames" hooking up, etc. and she agrees.

And you're right. Just after I did that post this morning, I had to be out of the office for a while. I sent her an IM telling her I would be out for a while and if she heard what her raise and bonus were (it's that time for us) to let me know and she replied that she would. And then, just as I'm getting up from my desk to head out, I get another IM from her that just says "I love you". That made me feel pretty darn good.

I also know that it's totally possible that W looks at OM's FB page because she really doesn't like him as he got married to the woman he was running around with when he moved away from here and was still using my W when it suited him. I'm sure that stings as she was sure he was her "soulmate". There's a picture of the new W on his FB page. In a weird way, I can see her going out to look at it to see what she looked like and to reassure herself that she's so much better off now than she was two years ago.

Anyway...thanks again Kat. You're a keeper.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.