Steve,
I thank you for clearing that up.. I felt that it just wasnt possible based on your earlier comments.
I really do like this line:

"Learn to make yourself happy despite the current situation, show her understanding and try to include her in this happiness when she is willing to accept it."


Makes lots of sense.. I have 3 children, and I am learning to make muself happy despite the current situation.

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)