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I thought about that, too... But I would be lying if I said thats what I wanted.



I appreciate integrity very much. You stick to your guns and make decisions that you will always be able to live with. It's an honorable approach to a difficult situation. Kudo's.


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I'm somewhat glad that she thinks we are going to be friends, even if I don't plan to initiate anything, because maybe that makes her feel like she can contact me if she wants.



This is solid thinking as well S'gaar. If you can maintain your personal boundaries and not compromise even for her, this is a great approach.


I really think you have great thinking on this matter. You seem at peace, even though what is happening is not what you would hope for. This characteristic will serve you well as you go through this.


I'm impressed.


Blessings,

Bill


"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."