Doing fine. I don't stop by here very much anymore other than to take a peek at the boards once in a while. I really just needed to get away from conversation about divorce.
I have some occasional contact with the former mostly related to kid stuff, otherwise I really don't concern myself. Kids seem to be doing fine.
I spend more time with friends and seem to have a richer web of relationships. I used to worry about how I was perceived to the point that it interfered with my life and kept me inside a lot. Somehow I let it go.
I'm not really dating or looking. I hang out. Meet people. Do things. Sometimes I miss having someone close in my life to share (I do have one special friend), however I don't miss living with someone.
The Black Dog hasn't been by too much. I have my moments but seem to be at a permanently lower level of stress. I don't know if or when that mangy hound will stop by again for a major round but it's always a possibility.
I dropped a few activities that just weren't doing it for me (Tri club). Instead I've been doing a lot of other activities (winter biking, skiing) instead of pointlessly logging miles out of guilt. I'm more interested in experiences.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
