Saffie/Puppy so glad to hear your sitchs are working out.Its gives us all some confidence. I am new to the forum and would beefit from your views. My husband (in MLC)has been away for 8 months with OW and before that 8 months EA.I guess I made the ultimate mistake and threw my husband out at bomb drop.

We have had no ctc for the last 6 months except for a couple of txts. The last one was asking for a D and agreeing to sign over all matrimonial assests.(He has not chased reply almost 3 weeks since he sent txt).

If NC works when withdrawing the affair partner, do you think the same principles could apply to the wife?

He has also gone nc with children,family and friends. I know people say these relationships dont generally work but they seem to go on for a while?

Saffie was your husband A a PA or EA? and are they both difficult to bust?
Continued good luck and best wishes to you guys.

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith