Need some help!!!

[jtish7234]

I have been focusing on trying to find a job, working out, spending time with my kids. Trying to get back to the person that my H fell in love with.

I have limited contact with him. I don't call him unless it is necessary. We usually communicate by email, but lately the emails are getting to hard and things are getting misunderstood. The last set of emails were about rescheduling the pretrail hearing. I was very upset that he would tell me this in and email, and to make matters worse he did it on our son's 1st bday. I have recommended that if there is something major to talk about that we should do it with a therapist present.

When it is his weekend with the kids, I drive them back to were we used to live. While we were married H spent little time alone with both boys; and it helps put my mind at ease being in the same town with him when he has the boys. I know it sounds like I am enabling him, but I am trying to keep the peace to an extent. My H is a very impatient man, and is short fused. I just want my kids to enjoy their time with their dad, because they only get to see him for about 24hrs every two weeks. Which is hard because my boys are 3 yrs old and 1 yrs old. And it is really hard on our 3 yr old.