Originally Posted By: mb28

I'm going to ... move in when he is out of town for those 4 days, and when he comes home, tell him I'm staying in the house and keeping it for me and the kids.


Even just say "I'm staying in teh house and keeping it for THE KIDS"

Set an example and show him where your priority is... Don't even include yourself... It sends a solid message.

If he complains just tell him the last time he was there he didn't even WANT his kids around and it was clear to you he had someone else there...

Again I don't reccomend confronting him in person, and its best that someone else tell him all of this, or at least if you have to talk to him in person make sure someone else is there to run interference and keep him under control.