Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Thanks dburt. I can't quite figure out if it's a case of my W not being attracted to me as much as it is with her frustration that I wouldn't change. That I wouldn't get off my butt and get a job and get over my depression. I just don't know. What I do know is that I need to show her consistent change now. I have to remain patient and I'm getting better at it now. Still have days when I just wish my W and I were at the point we are back together but I know I need to give it time.

Question for you dburt. How long was the process for you and your W? From the time she dropped the bomb on you until she said she wanted to try to work on M? I tried following your orginial thread but I'm not sure of your timeline. Were you separated or still living together? How are things now?

thanks, mza8