Yes DG, I don't think they really realize the world of complication that they're inviting into their lives and their children's lives. The idea of being replaced is only very theoretical to them. I would be careful with that as a DB strategy though...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
