I did text him later and told him that I was sorry that he felt that way.

It is just so hard to remember that this is his journey only and that only he can take the trip.

I guess I messed up my response to him. But he was yelling and yelling and I probably should have just hung up instead of reacting.


What have I done for myself?

Well I have reconnected with friends that I haven't kept in touch with throughout the years.

I am becoming more involved in the church that I attend.

I am learning to cook! I always was the baker and he was the cook in our relationship. I wish I had a big eater to cook for though. My daughter (19 years old) doesnt eat a lot anymore. So I end up eating the same thing for a week.

I want to start doing photography again. I've been going over my camera equipment and getting it ready.


Me 44
Husband 42
Bomb 1/2009
OW 25
M 17 years

Orig thread
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1889368&page=1
ILYBNILWY 1/11/2009
separated 8/2009