Unfortuately I have no way to get the book back at the moment, H lives 2 hrs away. I just don't know what to do now.

As of late I have tried very hard to keep our communications at a min, because it tends to get ugly when the certain topics come up. But last weekend, we spent most of the weekend (due to a family fuction) and we didn't fight rather we worked well together to take care of our kids. Which we hadn't done in a long time. He feels like our marrige is a lost cause and that he doesn't want to spend the rest of his life in a loveless marriage (like his parents).

Now what?

XH 30
W 29
M 5/Together 9
2 boys ages 3 and 1
Bomb of OW 10/2009
Divorce final 7/2010
Now in limbo