Passenger, I think dropping him off had more of an effect on me than him. I felt a lot better about myself not putting up with that BS, and showing him I won't put up with that BS. He came home this morning shrugging it off, pretending the whole incident didn't happen. He is definitely in a stupor as to other's emotions, but I am not sure if this is because of the alcohol, or just plain selfishness.
He BLEW UP today when he learned our friends and family know what's going on. He accused me of betraying him. Told me I lied to them and am a liar. Said I am trying to take away his friends and family. Told me I had no right and it wasn't my place, that he should have been able to decide when and how to tell his family. Said he's never going to talk to any of them again. Said that since I did that than things are DEFINITELY over...However, I've been hearing from him at least once a day that things are Definitely Over so it's not like I'm taking it any harder than I did yesterday, and the day before. In fact, it seems to be easier to take as he keeps playing basically the same card over and over...