Your so right, he is neglecting his kids. And yes he is an addict, and most of his family supports me....
But like I mentioned he won't even return their phone calls right now. He is distancing himself from all family and friends because of his guilt. He know's that everyone does think he is having an affair.
He's headed for nowhere, I think you can see that now. You can likley already see the ending of the mess he's created.. its just hard to tell when exactly it will end .. But it will...
He's likley to get even worse before he gets better, he's really addicted to this fantasy... If everyone else can see it he's in bad shape. I suspect his workplace performance is suffering too.. he may even lose his job before this ends.... It's happening with 4luv... Its very hard for someone acting like such a child to keep up appearances forever..
You need to keep an eye on yoru kids. Ask Puppy, his wife took off for an afternoon and left her kids there alone, with NO FOOD or supervision at all. Addictions don't just make you a bad husband and wife, they make you a bad parent.
Make sure your family and his family know about every infraction he does to neglect his kids.
I had read in one article a while back, it may have been a video, but the husband who had an affair eventually admitted :
"If I had put half as much effort into my kids and my wife instead of working to hide my affair, I would still be married right now... And a lot happier"
Every minute he puts into his affair is a minute he robs his kids of a father. Be sure to expose everything he does.. not a tawdry way, just make sure they are aware that he's dangerous to the kids.
