Update;

H had about 5 days in a row of coming over b4 work to visit, run errands and such. when it came for him to have a day off work, he pulled the im to busy to come over.

i know he was busy, but how in the world does he expect to be a father with the priority of chasing the money train?

how i know he was busy is that his hourly job gave him day off but his "business" job took him out of town. i get angry because he doesn't leave early in morning, sits aruond for hours b4 he gets going to do work, sometimes till noon.

my opinion is that if he had priorities in right place he'd be up crack of dawn get work done so he can visit with kids.

so no we are back to 3 days of not seeing kids. my phone does not work at all so all convos have stopped.

on friday when phone sort of worked, i got upset and told him to back off that we kept getting hurt. he'd say he wants to work it out, that he was going to start staying a day here or there overnight, but then had no actions.

i texted him what i needed to see in actions and pulled back further. sunday he came to pump my tire, i locked my door and he sped off angry. prior to this he sent msg that he did not want to see me was mad...


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline