MLC or not?

[dday101798]

GF,

You are in good hands here from just the last few days of posts I saw. The problem tho, is you ARE getting some level headed advice, but not listening to it! Slow down. What I'm seeing right now is you've backslid a bit and need to remember, there is NOT one thing he does you can control. There is NOT one thing he does you can change.

If he's going to blow his stack, then dont' say anything, he's a big boy, he'll figure out where he messed up. In the mean time, tho, if you are concerned of items laying around at his residence or where ever that affects your D, definately as said, document it.

Everything else, you've already answered your own questions. I don't care if it's MLC, ADD, CIA, whatever accranym you wish to apply to your WAS, the bottome line is, you're dealing with a WAS. Thus, things will fine and dandy one day, and not the next. History as you know it has changed and will continually change to validate the WAS. Nature of the beast.

Keep sight of this!!!!!! This is nothing new.

If he wants to go on a tirade and be a beef jerky, let him, ignore him, act "as if" until it finally is AS IF. Stop trying to get in his head, you can't and you will dirive yourself looney if you don't stop. I tell you, when I was doing this I realized when I was no longer acting and things were in fact as if when (x)W would spew the same non-sense babble and finally instead of rebutting it, I'd just laugh, sincerely laugh and walk away. And that would piss her off so bad. WHY? Because I wasn't giving her a rise and arguing her chirades any longer.

I know it's difficult with children involved. However, there are rules in black and white you can fall back on. No need to create them yourself.