Your so right, he is neglecting his kids. And yes he is an addict, and most of his family supports me. I wouldn't say they would go as far as shutting him out, but all of them (except his dad) has said that he better not bring this OW around the family. The sister I mentioned above is convinced he is having affair, and we talked about him lying about everything. So they expect him to lie to them too. However, they do want to tell him how bad he is hurting me and the kids and the rest of his family, etc. But like I mentioned he won't even return their phone calls right now. He is distancing himself from all family and friends because of his guilt. He know's that everyone does think he is having an affair.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10