Or what to do to find out what is working? I'm at a loss
When you can wake up in the morning, be confident in your shoes and with the reflection staring you back in the mirror and say with pride, "I've done all that I can do to change the situation and can do no more", that's when you know it's working.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11