Originally Posted By: thegoodfight
There is a lot going on here. Bible study for the both of you, I guarantee that is not a bad thing. Unfortunately, if she were "listening" to God she would be coming to you and her family and making peace before attempting to go before "him." Make peace with your brothers and sisters before you come to me.

Also she must confess, renounce, and repent for her sins. I do not want to be a bump in the road, but I find little faith in men and women, especially when she is in a "fog". To another point, it is clearly stated "God" hates divorce, it breaks up families and causes more issues than can be imagined. I do not know what else to say, except sit back, keep your inner peace. Sounds like you are "doing" all that you can and are on the right track for yourself. If she wants to get her life on track then "he" will help her. But as posted by another earlier he does not mess with "free-will".

As stated before, I know and have faith this will work out and he will make good out of anything bad. Hang in there, you sound better and more peaceful.


I have faith and hope in God doing everything He possibly can to reach her. I don't have the same faith that she will listen to Him. She has done nothing in the way of reaching out to me. Which makes me think that I doubt God's ability to soften her heart, but I know that's not the case. God can do anything, but that doesn't mean He WILL do anything. She has to be willing to choose His path, and if she is not, it won't make a difference what God does since He won't interfere in free will.

I think it is very possible that she see's herself becoming a Christian and applying that faith to her "new" life, and leaving all aspects of her old life behind.

I still think she is completely lost in her fog and enthralled with the OM. That's why I have such a hard time with what she is doing; it doesn't reconcile. But God has His ways of doing things, and her taking this step cannot be a bad thing. I'm just really interested in how this will play out.

I would think that there would be some definite positive movement in our relationship shortly after Sunday if she truly is accepting God. If not, then she is still lost and confused, and likely thinking that she can divorce, marry the OM, and retain God's grace.


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