It was my first weekend with the kids since I've been out of the hospital. I didn't want to get overwhelmed, so instead of taking the kids both Friday and Saturday night, I asked my H if he was ok with me taking them Saturday night. He said that was fine. However, I did tell him that if he made plans for Friday night, to please let me know and I would take them Friday night too. I think that is one reason why he lied to me about our 6 year S being home Friday night, then I find out from the kids that nope my S stayed the night at his grandmas.
Your right about my instincts they are telling me to negotiate with him and to do it in the nicest way possible so I don't upset him. Why do I fall back into that mindset every few days of me not wanting to rock the boat. I'm going to do what you said Allen, and move in when he is out of town for those 4 days, and when he comes home, tell him I'm staying in the house and keeping it for me and the kids.
I talked with his sister this morning. She and her H have wanted to talk to my H about our M. I talked with them 2 Saturday's ago, and they are very marriage-friendly and wanted to help me out. However, they have both texted and left messages for my H and he has not replied to them at all. He is alienating himself from everyone; family and friends.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
