DH came up at break today (as he usually does) - seemed to be looking for something, looking to see what I was doing. He picked up some papers from my desk that were upside down and looked at them. Never done that before. Then he said he had some food, and I said OK, and started to turn my back to him. He said "well, I know you're busy" and started to leave. Then at lunch, he emailed me that he was going home to look for DSS's paperwork. He's still contacting me, and interested in what I'm doing. He changed his work email password, so I can't get on there anymore, but I did print out a few of them, and I can obtain his password easily enough if I felt it necessary. I already know what is going on, no need to look further.
My main issue now is that I want to get the exposure over before we go to Retro. To be honest, he is not supposed to be in an A, and maybe it will help us heal. Only 18 days left, and I won't be able to do the intervention until Thursday. I have a prayer group that will be fasting and praying for us on Thursday. I just need to expose before he does, I feel I need the upper hand on this one. MIL is willing to have it done at her house, and she's ready to say to him that if he doesn't end it, he will not be welcome at her house except to drop the children off in front of the house for a visit. I told her I did not want her to go that far, but the forcefulness with which she says that is excellent.
Still putting together my exposure plan. Stay tuned.
