Why are they like teenagers when in MLC?

[TomLost Love]

Cyn - hang in there. I stumbled upon your thread today and your comment about missing your best friend is something I've said a number of times myself - I miss my W terribly - the best woman and friend a man could ever have had. Hurts like hell - still feeling badly 6 months down the road - like its never going to end. There is no OM that I know about with my W, but she has acted like a teenager as your thread title indicates as well. Secrecy, no questions allowed, wants to date, wants to sell house, wants to move away w D11. I can't figure it out either -and my sitch continues to head down an uncertain road as well. I have no real words of wisdom or explanation - other than just continue to ride this out. It is hard - every day is a struggle for me - but I believe in the encouragement that I get here that says - stay the course and things will get better for you. Its about all the hope I have left - so know you are not the only one out there. My W wouldn't go to therapy, counseling, or talk about "us" at all - just announced she needs a Leg Sep from me and thats that - thats what devastated me too - how can someone not give 25 yrs together consideration and some level of attention, not even try. Keep your head up - I am as best I can.....