WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

Thanks for all the support everyone.. ((Hugs))

I know it's not nice to poke at the aliens, but I kind of did this weekend.

I spoke to H on the phone about a household matter and casually said to him that I hoped we could reach the point of friends as it would be important when a Stepfather or Stepmother came in the picture.

He said "excuse me?"

I repeated it... and he said "there will be no stepfather!"

I said, "what, I'm not allowed to get remarried??"

He said that there was no way another man was going to be called "dad or father" by his kids..

I said, "well, you called my dad "dad".."

He said "this conversation ends now!"

and I said, "Oh okay.. well have a great day" all nice and calm-like with a little confusion as if I'm not sure what he's upset about...

I guess he never thought of the flipside of us getting divorced.. like another man coming in and fathering his kids too...