I'm still here, just don't have anything to add since Rob and MF seem to have you going in the right direction.
Originally Posted By: Fergie
3. I'm feeling generous about the kitchen equipment, since we have enough for duplicates. But I wouldn't mind keeping all the cookware. She must have bought dishes by now, unless she is paper-plating it. Thoughts?
We had/have duplicates too. I gave BF the old household stuff that I didn't want, just the basics. Of course you should keep the nice household things in the house! If he had complained (which I knew he wouldn't) then I would have justified it by saying the house will be sold so it needs to be staged to look its best.
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