Thanks Allen, that is how I was leaning towards handling it. But then I started second guessing myself and wondering if I should talk to him this week about it or maybe even email him today. He won't be gone until the weekend of April 9th, so it will be a couple more weeks before I can do that.

He won't be home until that following Monday April 12th. And I guess when he comes home, that is when I will tell him I've decided what is best for me and the kids is for me to try to keep the house.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10