I'll store that stuff. I just needed to hear it. She can have her wedding dress back, though. I certainly don't need it, unless I wanted to put it on and feel pretty, but I'm not into that. And you are right. I’ll hold onto anything we shared that I might want, and she can ask for it. Consider it payment for helping her move.
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THE PLAN is coming together... nicely. I'm impressed by your composure.
Just like Hannibal from the A-Team. "I love it when a plan comes together."
Thanks for the compliment. It is easy for me to be composed when I have a plan. Plus, I am used to doing everything anyway and she was gone a lot, so the transition hasn't been horrible. It helps to realize the person I see and talk to isn't the person who was my W. It really helps to come here to vent and get positive reinforcement.
The C is onboard with the plan. We talked about the A. C is in complete agreement about the things that need to happen to move forward with MC. W is still going to IC, but no MC sessions planned. I summed up a lot of what has been discussed in my thread this past week. I guess I didn't tell her about the ring, and she seemed pretty concerned about that, so I guess it isn't just me. I don’t need the C to like me or try and win her to my side, but we need to discuss this stuff, if the W and I ever get to piecing. The C doesn’t discuss what we say in IC to each other, but she did say the A hasn’t come up in the W sessions. I said it must hard to get info from one S and then, because of confidentiality, not to be able to ask directly about it in the other IC session. We also discussed D issue options and expectations.
The C thinks I’m in a good place right now and sees no need to see me weekly, unless I want to come in. She thinks I have a handle on my self improvement plan, and I already have a life.
