I know that we LBS's tend to romanticize the R and that we also blame ourselves for a lot- so thats the key- to understand that yes we know our parts and are willing to address them w/ or w/o WAS.
I have stopped blamming myself. I know what I did, but I also know that I am a good man. Im done feeling sorry for myself and I don't want her to feel sorry for me either. It doesn't help that I am a hopeless romantic. That I pretty much see us working through all things together and not divorcing. I like the steps I've made for myself so far. I just need to make sure my PMA is up everyday. It has been hard. especially when she leaves, it really affects me. And she knows it.
Any of you have any ideas for goals? Or what to do to find out what is working? I'm at a loss
I like all this empty space because i can now type out things that are important.
Like: D7 S2 starting swimming lessons on 3/30
"Readily will I display the intestinal fortidue required to fight on..."