1. Her b.day is coming up in 2 weeks, should I just say H.Bday through email/text and nothing else? or get her a little something? Invite her to dinner etc.
2. Should I offer her a chance to come and talk to me about the issues so I can validate her? I didn't do this last time we talked. Like a dumb person I tried to make her see it my way and ended up doing all the talking...
3. Changing gears completely, should I file for D and be the 'aggresor' (going with gucci's philosophy). It could back fire in how she percieves it and then makes me pay for it literally in terms of alimony, child support etc
Keep in mind I've gone dark grey on her and haven't really seen or spoken to her other than the 3 or 4 times when exchanging DD and even then I just focus on DD not her. I don't know if it's made any difference. She's always 'nice' to me, keeps a straight face and hard to tell what she's thinking or doing in the background. She's sneaky like that...
Last edited by StupidRomeo; 03/29/1003:59 PM.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
