From what your telling us the C said it sounds like the kind of c you don't want. The C is telling you that you were doomed when you got married. Sure doesn't sound like this C is willing to help mend the marriage.

If I went int MC with my W and the C started talking like that, I think I would start looking for a new C. You need to dump that C in my opinion, because this one appears to already causing more damage than good.

I continue to hope for nothing but good things for YOU meg. i want to see you come through this stronger and better.

Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept