He's clearly addicted right now... addicts have tunnel vision... that phone and the OW on the end of it is the only thing he's aware of right now.
Good call on exposing there, as I said, TIMING is everything.
And of course.. ah yes, ... the ole smear campagin .. i know that one well... my wife tried that with all her friends too... sh even admitted in a rant at me one day "I have trashed you to everyone I know!"
Most of them watch your behavior and then your partner's and they decide based on maturity and grace which one is lying... I think you won that one hands down.
If you want my opinion I say invite him back in... Have the whole group there waiting for him and eveyrone tells him that he etiher ends his affair or NO ONE will have ANYTHING to do with him anymore... Better known as an Intervention
